Rules 4 Attraction
63The Rules of Attraction C: The Perfect Relationship
Girl: List your flaws in a relationship (she was reading from the
present Amanda gave me for my birthday; my second present [My first
present was Liz in the sexiest black dress I have ever seen--haha]).
Jojo: None. I wouldn’t have any flaws.
Girl: Why?
Jojo: Because. I believe the only relationship is perfect. I would
never fight with the girl. It all stems from my parents never fighting.
Well… as far as I know. They have never fought in front of me. So I
believe all normal relationships are like that. Perfect.
I was drunk once and I told this girl that called me that if she was my
girlfriend that it would be “magical” and that we would have never
fought.
Of course I was at my friends’ house and they taunted me for about a
month. As drunk as I was I was being honest. Later they put it on my
status on facebook and I got responses from so many girls. Even girls
that had boyfriends were telling me. As shocked as I was I told them to
write a comment but they couldn’t because their boyfriend would have
seen it. So that would be my first official relationship.
[End Conversation]
That’s why I want my first date to be perfect. As big as it would be, I
would want my first date to be in Disneyland. I was half joking with my
friend when I told him our 1 year anniversary would be Disney mother
fucking World! LOL.
It would be so nice.
She would be my everything. “We’d do it real big, bigger then she’d ever done it” --Lil’ Wayne.
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Linda Ho:) that is why who ever is ur gf.. would be a very lucky person!!!Yesterday at 11:58am · Delete
Jeffrey SahagunNo
relationship is perfect dear Jojo. A "normal" and "healthy"
relationship always goes through rough times. You know you have a
keeper when your significant other can work with you through the rough
times and still care and love you for who you are. Despite your
imperfections.
Wow. That was long.Yesterday at 1:11pm · Delete
Philip JosafatSecond.Yesterday at 4:41pm · Delete
Linda Hoi agree with jeff!!!9 hours ago · Delete
Jojo JosafatThere's 2 things you have to consider though...
1)
What is perfect? How can an imperfect exist if a perfect one cannot?
"Perfection isn't perfect without it's flaws" --Yangster
2) I wouldn't know that. I've never been in a real relationship before.2 seconds ago · Delete
Option a) Friend With Benifits
"You've had friends with benefits before right?"
"ummm... yeah" I hesitated not only because the question caught me off guard but I wanted to make her feel comfortable enough to talk to me even if I could be lying (she'll understand by the time she reads this).
The conversations with her usually start the same, “How are you and the girls Jojo?”
Then it would then lead to what’s really on her mind…
She told me that the guy she was seeing was a friend-with-benefits or better yet a security blanket.
They were friends beforehand, but she had other intentions.
She said she “tried” leaving him.
That word “try” always seems to irritate me. You either do or you don’t. It’s like saying I “tried” to quit smoking but if I’m still smoking then I really didn’t quit.
She said leaving him was harder done then said.
I wanted to tell her she’s full of shit and that she should give more credit to herself.
She was tired of trying and that her only two options were to be with him until
a) he realizes how good she is.
b) someone else comes along.
She was telling me about his previous 4 year relationship and about how sweet the moments with him were and other little things that added to the confusion of the problem.
Does it really matter how many variables you add to the equation? Isn’t the outcome always the same? Do this and receive this (supposedly).
She said it was a lose lose situation.
Although I couldn’t tell her which decision to make –even if she let me– I told her to find out what she really wanted. If she went for what she wanted then no matter what the outcome was, she couldn’t loose; because that’s what she wanted fully understanding what the outcome could be. A win win situation.
The trick is to know. Emotions will make it harder to make this decision.
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After we talked I received another call from someone I was kind of seeing.
“I love you” she said.
“Your crazy” I responded.
How do you break up with someone your not really with?
Maybe the 1st girl’s situation wasn’t so different from mine.
I Would Still Die For You: A prelude to "Are You Emo?"
Call off the search, no one will know that I'm down here
Believe the note I left for you
You can't turn back the clocks, you can't pull me up from here, so don't try
I'm in a car underwater with time to kill, thinking back I forgot to tell you this
I DIDN'T CARE THAT YOU LEFT AND ABANDONED ME, WHAT HURTS MORE IS I WOULD STILL DIE FOR YOU.
I'm in a car underwater with time to kill, thinking back I forgot to tell you this
I didn't care that you left and abandoned me, what hurts more is I would still die for you.
Make time slower, give me longer.
It's too late for me, no one will know that I'm down here.
And believe your dreams of me sinking
so far, below, you can't pull me up from here so don't try.
In a car underwater with time to kill, thinking back I forgot to tell you this
I didn't care that you left and abandoned me, what hurts more is I would still die for you.
I'm in a car underwater with time to kill, thinking back I forgot to tell you this
I didn't care that you left and abandoned me, what hurts more is I would still die for you.
Leave it up to me. To burden you again.
This ones not your fault. Please forgive me.
Leave it up to me (leave it up to me). To burden you again (To burden you again).
This ones not your fault. So forget, so forget, so forget me.
Don't think back, don't think back of me at all.
Just let me go.
Don't think back, don't think back of me at all.
Just let me go.
Don't think back, don't think back of me at all.
Don't think back, don't think back of me at all.
Don't think back, don't think back of me at all.
I'm in a car underwater with time to kill, thinking back I forgot to tell you this
I didn't care that you left and abandoned me, what hurts more is I would still die for you.
I'm in a car underwater with time to kill, thinking back I forgot to tell you this
I didn't care that you left and abandoned me, what hurts more is I would still die for you.
and I would still die for you
I would still die for you
and I would still die for you
I would still die for you
and I would still die for you...
-Armor For Sleep
Meet Jo Black: The Rules of Attraction ii
Meet Jo Black: The Rules of Attraction ii
Why did they call me Jo Black? To make a long story short it's what happened in Vegas.
Now to make a short story long:
It started about a week and a half ago when I told Mark I'd go with him to Vegas. On Friday we scouted the clubs. That night Marvin and Mark had no trouble meeting girls and I couldn't take my mind off of it the night afterwards. Mark and Marvin said I needed to "step it up tomorrow." They also told me that before our Vegas trip all "the guys" (our friends in San Diego) thought that out of the three of us, I would need to be winged the most during the trip. I thought to myself, "wow, these guys think I'm horrible at meeting women."
Then I said "Fuck it it's Vegas" nobody knows me here. I'm someone different. So I became who I wanted to be that night on Saturday.
I started off by making friends with everyone around us in the line. Partly cause I wanted to know which one of them was single
I used a simple and generic opener that consisted of asking where the nearest bar was.
As soon as we got into club Tryst (a 4 hour wait in line) I immediately had friends who urged me to dance with their new found Caucasian friend! (haha) and that's only how it began! I was asking one girl after the other. In the end I met a girl from Haiti (I'm still not completely sure where it is) she said something about it being in or around Jamaica... I dunno.
We danced the rest of the night away to songs that contained the lyrics shawtay, let me buy u a drank, and bartender. She showed me some moves and even taught me a couple about slowing the grinding down
OoOoh my...
Never danced with any one that could keep up with me and non the less better then me! She told me I danced very good and repeatedly told me that how I dance is "how I should have sex with a black girl." She repeated saying that about every other song (about 6 times)
Come to think of it I think she was trying to say something lol... but I told the guys I wouldn't do the deed unless there was at least two out of the three of us that was going to. (Never leave a man down)
oh well there's always next time... (August 9, 10, and 11)
[Blogged July 23, 2007]
RED RuFiO
Couldn't Been written any Better!!! When can I chill wit 'JO BLACK'... It is WHAT it is...Ready?? 8/9-11
Posted by RED RuFiO on Jul 23, 2007 9:01 PM
She loves me... She loves me not? : TROA iii
She loves me... She loves me not? : TROA iii
I
feel kind of akward writting this because I’m not 100% sure about if
this is true. But then again, when you think someone likes you, you
tend to never really know if it’s true or not, which in turn makes the
"game" fun (not knowing what’s going to happen).
I’m getting wierd
vibes from one of my "friends." A girl. I’ve gotten a couple Indicators
Of Intrest or what I like to call "IOI"s. She sweet. I’ve been sweet to
her. We would make a great couple. But what’s with the timming? Why
now? Why not before? When I used to really like her?
It’s cause
girls don’t respect guys that like them first. It’s hard to get a girl
when you like her. It’s so ironic but I’ve learned the one thing that
turns off girls instantly is when you bluntly show you like them. I
fucking hate it! Average Frustrated Chumps or AFC’s have the most
common mistake of showing a girl they like them. The game is about push
and pull. I see AFC’s all the time doing stupid average things way too
much!
Okay so push and pull. What does that mean? You can say
pushing is being agressive and pulling is "seducing" or letting the
girl be agressive. One of my friends let’s just call him SC pushes too
much. He’s good at pushing.... but he drives away a lot of girls he
could have. He’s the pro at pushing. No other guy is agressive just the
right amount like he is.
Well that’s enough side tracking...
This
girl. She is cute, sweet... maybe even perfect in my eyes. but I can’t
have a girlfriend now. I still want to experience being single and
seductive. Anyways she’s my friend for crying out loud! I thought I
figured that out. I agreed to myself to choose girls as either friends
or lovers and never convert but now that she’s throwing me IOI’s it’s
CONFUSING the fuck out of me. I don’t know what to do... she’s going to
tell me she likes me soon... I know it...
I’m scarred and excited at the same time.
Seduction:Infatuation as Ramance:Love : TROA iv
Sunday, June 03, 2007
Current mood: creative Category: Religion and Philosophy
Simply Irresistible (movie)
Good
screen play. Very good actor (same actor in Boon dock Saints). It made
me think about my past or maybe even still present hopeless romantic
life...
Romance. It started when I was a kid. I remember at
least most of my life my dad was in the Navy or in other words gone. So
my mom taught me about life. She taught me how to socialize. Reacting
with my mom made me find out how women should be treated.
Love.
Movies then showed me and other ppl how romance is. How the real world
is never like. You don’t learn this only from experience (which some
guys never learn) you learn this from the people that get women:
players or better yet pick up artists. Which leads to my next point.
Seduction
(Lust) Lust- intense sexual desire or appetite [As said by
dictionary.com]. Women have a hard time differentiating what they want
and what they need. I have a friend that says one thing when I really
know she wants the other. Another friend, a closer friend, that keeps
changing his damn mind about what he wants.The truth is this…. If women
don’t know what they want, how are men suppose to figure it out? I
think it’ll just take time to figure out but it doesn’t ignore the
difficulty imposed in something that might just be more simplistic then
I think...:
Infatuation. Something I guarantee you will not know
unless you’ve experienced both of love and of infatuation. Too many ppl
are confused with the 2. They feel the same… at least to the
inexperienced. 2 completely different things. Love is trust (100%).
Infatuation leaves u with jealousy. It’s not normal to feel jealous
because your friends or your family get jealous. Don’t believe that
fucking bullshit. But it is normal to feel jealous in the beginning of
a relationship… it just means your not in love yet…nobody falls in love
that quickly.
[edit April 8, 08]
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